Our mind is capable of some incredible things.  Unfortunately our ego limits us to what we know. It takes courage to step outside of that familiar “knowing”, and move into space that might challenge our belief systems. Perhaps even the belief system that that our parents gave us, or we were raised with.

When I am coaching a person, team, or business, I keep in mind the unseen beliefs. I suggest the same for you.  When you are managing another person, or working right alongside of them, if you want peace and harmony in the workplace you might want to consider the fact that your beliefs might not match up with theirs and assuming they are, is a recipe for disaster.

May you find new awareness’s while you “open up” to new possibilities, it’s a really grand world we live in”¦if you “choose” to think so.

Do you want to know the top 10 ways to influence others, get what you want, know why you were born, persuade others with your views, change your life, articulate your mission, see the future, create a legacy, make more friends, move about this planet more powerfully, know yourself more deeply, and basically experience just about everything you want in life?

Then you have come to the right place!  Here it is”¦

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  1. L-i-s-t-e-n lis·tenˈ”¦lis(É™)n“¦verb“¦gerund or present participle: listening (give one’s attention to a sound.  “evidently he was not listening”)

synonyms:       hear, pay attention, be attentive, attend, concentrate;

Listening is often confused with hearing. While hearing is a process that can be scientifically explained, listening is a neurological cognitive regarding the processing of auditory stimuli received by the auditory system.

Feel like I shortchanged you?  Sorry. I did NOT short change you. Books are still being written about it.  Hundreds of songs refer to it.  The greatest iconic Leaders of ALL time modeled it.  The most beautiful Monasteries principles were built on it.  And parents preach it.

No! I didn’t short change you.  I simplified it for you. You want more engaging conversation, fulfilling life, love, power, or any of those things listed previously? Then listen. Listen to the person across from you.  “Be” with them now.  In this present time. Slow down your breathing and be with them.


Give it a try and let me know how it goes.